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Recently, I noticed a trend from one my Facebook friends that made me laugh. She and her boyfriend constantly post public declarations of their love for each other back and forth on their Facebook pages. Every day, she writes about something she did with her honey, and every day he comments on it. If she cleaned up his house, she shares it on Facebook. If they had a nice meal together, it's on Facebook! If he sneezed in a funny way... you guessed it. Every little interaction of their life is made public to all her friends, as if any of us want to hear about this stuff! And if that isn't bad enough, he then has to comment on her comment, and then she comments on his comment. The culminating cherry on top of this pinnacle of nausea is that they use completely cringe-worthy pet names for each other!
"Thank you for cooking that wondering dinner for me tonight, yummy buns!"
I was researching the web and stumbled upon this site that was giving advice about How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You. She offered a list of 7 ways to have men fall in love:
Be Femine; Give Him Space; Listen to Him; Respect His Family; Compliment; Focus on HIs Accomplishments; and Support His Goals.
Why is This a Dangerous Approach?
Are you afraid of being too much? Do you fear that you need to be careful, so you won't scare a man away? Well here is a wake up call for you! You are probably going to lose him, because you are aren't showing him who you are. Some men want quiet , mild mannered subordinate women, and some men want a woman with spunk! The question is which guy do you want?
Do you want a man who likes a woman with a brain and has an opinion? Or do you want a man who prefers you keep your opinions to yourself? Because if you decide to suppress yourself and keep your opinions to yourself, then