If you are tired, hurt or confused about men and relationships...Ask Denise!
Here's a question that comes up a million times a day throughout the world: "Why do men prefer a sex buddy over a real girlfriend or wife?" In fact, many women in "relationships" feel like they are nothing more than room mates who have sex! Their guy lives his own life with very little involvement with her, except for the times when he wants to have sex. Then he gets what he wants and goes back to focusing on his other interests in life, whether it be hobbies, work, friends, etc.
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What advice would you offer this woman? Her guy spends time with a woman who is into him, he says they are just friends. However, he deletes her messages and acts very suspicious. He won't include her in these so called friend outings. She wants advice about what to do. Of course anyone who is not invested emotionally would immediately advise to dump the guy. But let's be practical, she won't because she is in love with him. Naturally it's her inclination to try harder, to fight for her man, to give him ultimatums. Anything to get him to stop seeing her. Yet the best advice is to do less. What does that mean?
For all you fabulous ladies out there in the dating world, there's one little slip up that's so common, we need to discuss it with you. It may seem like something small and relatively unimportant, but it's much bigger than you think. Do you know how to take a compliment? Rejecting compliments while dating is not the way to go if
Here is an interesting idea. If you were cheated from a having a Valentine's day "anything", should you ask for a redo. Recently a friend of mine shared with me that her teenage daughter insisted her boyfriend provide a Valentine's redo. She said the she got the idea from reading my book. Nah! That's not possible, I don't suggest that in my book. And then days later, I hear of another person using that same term: Valentine's Redo! So I started to think about it. Here is my thoughts on the subject, you won't want to miss it. I think this could be revolutionary!
"He loves me? He loves me not?" It's a question that's been around as long as humanity has. These days, we also hear, "He's just not that into you," thrown around a lot. In a time when values and relationship patterns are changing, when divorce rates are sky high, and when technology seems to only make things more confusing, it's easy to question whether you're interpreting his behavior properly, and whether you have some idea of what he really wants, but the good news is that there's an easy way to gauge his interest...
One of the most prevalent problems I see in single women is desperation, pure and simple. And it's no wonder, when our first impression of the opposite sex was made when we were all going through our hormonally charged puberty phase. At that age, it's easy to adopt the belief that guys are motivated by sex and not relationships. Do you remember hearing lines like, "You are a tease," and similar statements to make it seem like all they want is to get you into bed? Naturally, the underlying message we've received that colors our reaction to men is that they don't really want a relationship. We just have to convince them they do. It wasn't until I was in my forties that I realized that men really do want a relationship like I do. I'd simply been dating the wrong men! The kind that are always looking for greener pastures and therefore leave me waiting by the phone or only getting time with them when it works for them. And you know when that is...